Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Last Random Dozen of 2009


The Last Random Dozen of 2009!


Lid over at 2nd Cup of Coffee gives us our very last Random Dozen for 2009.

1. Do you find it gross to share drinks with family? Friends?
Nope! If they are sneezing or runny nose, I avoid it, otherwise, I figure there are enough good germs in me to kill anything they have.

2. What have you learned this year? (You didn't see a question of that weight coming, did you? At least not for #2.)
Not sure...I guess I have re-learned that I am not in control of my DDs lives and I can't make their decisions and and by golly, they make some pretty good ones on their own. Imagine that!


3. When do you dismantle the Christmas decorations?
Usually after Epiphany...Jan. 5th or so...sometimes as late as the 8th or so...


4. Something you wish to accomplish before the end of 2009 is:
can't think of anything


5. How do you feel about winter (after Christmas)
I love it until about March when I am WAY ready for green.


6. Have you participated in after-Christmas sales?
Nope - I work retail and try to avoid shopping.


7. Do you have plans for New Year's Eve?
Maybe. For the last 37 years I have hosted a party for college friends. This year another friend is hosting the party at their home so our DD can host a party here for HER college friends... the circle of life.


8. Is there anything special awaiting you in January?
Birthdays for both DDs and my mom


9. If your life this year was a movie, what category or genre would it be? (Romance, Comedy, Drama, Thriller, Suspense, Farcical, etc.)
Farce! Absolutely. Fortunately I like farce.


10. How much time per day do you spend blogging? Please do not lie. I will know.
not daily - about 3-4 hours a week


11. Who runs your household?
definite joint effort. Whoever has the time does what needs done.


12. Share one hope/dream for 2010.
I would love to see DD1 gainfully employed and attending church regularly....but really I can't control that so. . . MY dream/hope is to lose another 30 or so pounds.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

out with the old, in with the new

Family visits, Christmas and work have kept me from my blog, so...here goes.

I have never really done New Year's resolutions. I try to always improve myself...not saying I succeed, but I try. But I find that what I have a problem with is letting go sometimes. Not just of the bad stuff. Sometimes even good stuff becomes too much stuff.
Soooo... I am going to try to rid myself of some of the old stuff and welcome the new.

Out with Gramma's braided rug (60 years old and still beautiful if you know someone who wants it!)
Out with all the old towels I NEVER use. (OK I will keep a couple for when the dog gets sprayed again! :D)
Out with clothes I haven't worn in over 2 years.
Out with boxes of stuff I haven't even looked in or missed in over 5 years!

In with new attitudes about who my children should be.
In with more letting go of things I do not need to control.
In with hope for a better today and tomorrow. (When I googled images of Hope, I found this and it spoke to my feelings of hope, so I thought I would share it with you. It is by Exper Giovanni Rubaltelli of Abstract Design. I hope I credited that correctly. There is a poem that goes with it that I liked also, but not with this theme, so maybe you will want to go check it out yourself.)



I hope everyone had a Merry Christmas and may 2010 be a wonderful year for everyone!

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Thanksgiving 2009 - memories

LIST OF THANKS
1 - Sisters who help me paint!
2 - Heat in my bedroom
3 - My anole
4 - 2 beautiful daughters who are fast becoming 2 beautiful women
5 - Fried eggs and cheese sandwiches
6 - Breakfast for dinner
7 - SUNSHINE!!! YAY!!!
8 - cell phones that let me talk to hubby and the girls
9 - 2 new members to our Girl Scout group!!!!
10 - Hot water on demand
11 - Veterans and those who have given all to give me freedom
12 - For a house full of memories
13 - For my Thanksgiving cactus that is blooming!
14 - For pets who love me like God - unconditionally
15 - An AWESOME church service
16 - An education and ALL that entails
17 - the bestest, best in-laws in the world
18 - Music - all of it - all the time
19 - YAY - 7 new GS leaders to train!
20 - For Thanksgiving lasagna
21 - God loving even un-loveable me!
22 - An aunt who helps rake leaves because I needed help. Thank you indeed!
23 - For strawberries in November!
24 - Friends who call - just to chat
25 - A day off work - WITH pay !!! now I can cook, clean and get ready! :D
26 - Thanks-giving all day long for a wonderful family, good food, safe parade...and God's grace

Random Dozen - Christmas edition

OK what better way to jumo back into blogland than with the latest Random Dozen from 2nd Cup of Coffee. Hubby has been home for a week and half - I am almost re-nourished hug-wise! And I need to be here at the computer while the Christmas letter is printing out! :D

1. Gingerbread: For or against? Discuss.
I LOVE gingerbread. But I like it to eat, not necessarily to decorate. When I was growing up, my gramma would make it during my summer visit and we would decorate them with the leftover frostings she had in the fridge. (She did cakes) She had all the great tips for making roses and stuff and I thought it was great to decorate the gingerbread man that we always made. One of my father's brothers had made a good-size cookie cutter of a gingerbread man in his shop class so we always used it. And the decorating was fun, but it was only in later years that I realized that I always eat the ones with little or NO frosting and in reality I do not like frosting. Go figure. My Girl Scout service unit (the adult leaders) just decorated 5 dozen of them for the local Family Mission.


2. Is it important to you to always stay (live) close to family?
Very mixed answer. I am surrounded by relatives. Aunt, uncles and cousins all live around me, since my hubby and I bought the 'family home.' But my sisters and mom are a LONG ways away. Mom is a permanent RVer and one never knows where she will be from month to month. And 2 sisters are on the opposite end of the continent from me, so...we have learned to deal with it by linking weekly on-line and 'chatting' for an hour about what is happening in our lives and with our kids. It is not the best, but it helps.

3. Which holiday pretend character do you wish really existed?
Clarence

4. Which holiday movie best represents how you feel about Christmas or life?
I like all of them. It's a Wonderful Life, The Bishop's Wife, The Preacher's Wife, Santa Claus the Movie, and White Christmas


5. Is there a particular Christmas song that you're enjoying now? Any that you're tired of?
There's a Song in the Air is a favorite and I am so tired of whatever that one in it that says I gave you my heart and the very next day you gave it away... it seems like it plays ALL the time at work.

6. What is your favorite way to remember those less fortunate at Christmastime?
I have rung bells for the Salvation Army, helped pay off bills, Toys for Tots and Heifer Project...I guess the last may be my favorite. My Scouts for the last several years have voted NOT to exchange presents but to donate money to the Heifer Project. At our party each year we pull out the catalog and count up the money and then decide what to 'give' away this year. It is fun to watch them think about someone else.

7. Does it upset you to see "Xmas" instead of Christmas? How about "Happy Holidays" etc., instead of "Merry Christmas?"
It used to bother me, but then I got to thinking about that 'x' and realized that it is a cross - the very symbol of my faith and suddenly it didn't bother me anymore. I say Merry Christmas mostly, though if I know the person is not Christian (perhaps Jewish or Muslim) I might say Happy Holidays.

8. How many Christmas programs are you attending this month?
None. Kids are too old and no grandkids at this stage.


9. Are you dreaming of a white Christmas? Any chance of that dream becoming a reality?
Yes I would like a white Christmas and it is possible...we shall see if it happens. :D


10. Tell me about a Christmas present you received as a child. Pics are always nice.
Oddly enough I can't think of too many. I know I received a ton each year. Always more than I expected...but nothing stands out...what I remember is the family and the sharing and the going around and seeing what everyone else got.


11. How many Christmas parties are you attending this month?
None, being unemployed or under-employed does tend to simplify your life.


12. How do you keep yourself centered on the significance of Christmas?
I smile. I think of Mary and I smile. I think of Jesus and I smile. I think of Joseph and I smile. When I smile I think about the great gift I have been given and it just makes me smile more...one of those unending circle things. :D

Monday, December 7, 2009

He's home!!!

Hubby is home after 2 and a half months out of state working. Too much catching up to do...more later. :D Wheeeee!!!!

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Lid from 2nd cup of coffee has once again challenged us to the Random Dozen... here goes.
1. Which Wizard of Oz character are you most like?
My Girl Scout Troop just saw Wicked so I am having trouble remembering who is who in the original....let me see, I guess I would be...the con guy in the wagon. Kindly and trying to help, but maybe also a little bit of a fraud?
2. When you're deciding what you're going to wear each morning, which item do you select first? Why?
The clean one...because it's clean, duh.

3. What kind of animal do you think the world could live without?
I guess I agree with Kim over at http://kimfromthesouth.blogspot.com there are some insects I could live without, but our Scouts have been talking about how everything intertwines with everything else, so I am more than a little afraid that eliminating even the mosquito may damage something that I truly adore in this world.


4. How many Christmas trees are in your home?
One big tree in the living room. Sometimes a tiny tree in an antique German music box holder. The DDs have discussed having their own upstairs each year, but always end up putting their ornaments on the family tree...this year DD1 is living away from home and is talking about taking at least some of her ornaments with her...the ones the cats can't break.

5. Would you prefer to be emotionless if it mean you didn't have to feel a heartbreak?
No NO NO NO!

6. Do you ever experience holiday let-down or depression?
Occasionally, but it is brief - usually only a few minutes at most....like when I am stuck taking down the Christmas tree by myself!

7. Do you like Michael Jackson's music?
Some of the early stuff and the Jackson 5, but haven't heard much in YEARS.

8. Why is it that we never judge people who have their teeth fixed for cosmetic reasons, but every other cosmetic procedure has a stigma?
Maybe because we don't even know half the people have false teeth?

9. Enjoy horseback riding?
Nope never did. Have done it, can do it, don't enjoy it.

10. Shoes--practical or stylish?
Practical for my feet, but I love looking at the cute shoes on other (younger) women's feet.

11. What was the name of your first pet? Feel free to post a pic.
Kitty, He was a large orange tiger cat and I was 2 or 3 - hence, Kitty. And I don't think we ever had a picture of him.

12. What percentage of your Christmas shopping is done?
I think I must be approaching the 50% mark, but haven't really laid it out to enumerate.

Friday, November 27, 2009

Way, way back...

One of my favorite musicals is 'Joseph and the Amazing Technicolored Dreamcoat'. And if I ever get a chance to try-out for a part in it, I would go for the narrator. I love the whole idea of the narrator. Someone who is telling the story. And they start it..."way, way, back, many centuries ago, not long after the Bible began...." It is so much better than "once upon a time."
I like the concept of eternity - so long ago that the Bible had just begun - Garden of Eden time. One of the verses I have been finding re-appearing in my life over and over lately is Exodus 3:14 and echoed in John 8:58. God the I AM. Jesus the I AM and little old me with the audacity to say I am. Because of God and his gift to all of us, I am. I am a child of God, yesterday, today and for all time. The eternity. It is what makes me feel safe. I do not really understand those who fear the infinite. Who feel small next to it. Because of the GREAT I AM, I do not fear. At least not for my immortal soul...fire....now that's another thing. :D

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Linda over at 2nd cup of coffee offers us this Thanksgiving edition of the Random Dozen...if you check out her site you will see an adorable picture of her pooch in his turkey-day attire.


1. Are you sticking to traditional Thanksgiving foods this year, or are you being culinarily adventurous?
Yes pretty much. Though we are having new folks here and they are bringing some new foods for us.

2. Tell me something concrete that you're thankful for. (Something you can literally touch, see, etc., not a concept like "hope.")
My husband and daughters

3. You knew the flip side was coming: Share about something intangible that you're thankful for.
Faith

4. Share one vivid Thanksgiving memory. It doesn't have to be deep or meaningful, just something that remains etched in your memory.
For many years we were part of the Macy's Parade family. This meant that the dinner was really on Friday for us. I have this memory of my children riding the reindeer from the Santa float while we were waiting for dinner to be ready. They played all around the floats. Each year there were more and more kids and it became our family...when we stopped going, it was a great loss for us emotionally. This year hubby will be there, but the rest of us are still missing it. (these are the reindeer!)

5. What is one thing that you know beyond a shadow of a doubt is going to happen this Thanksgiving because it always does, year after year?
I will groan from over-eating.

6. Do your pets get any left-overs?
the dog will get some of the gravy on his food - but that is all

7. Does your family pray before the big meal? If so, do you join hands while seated, stand, repeat a formal prayer or offer a spontaneous prayer? Who does the praying?
YES we absolutely pray. Sometimes we hold hands, sometimes not. And who actually does the praying varies each year...it is VERY spontaneous. (this is one of my favorite Norman Rockwell's)

8. Will you be watching football in the afternoon? If not, what will you be doing?
I will NOT be watching, but is may be on the TV because some of the guest like it.

9. There are two distinct camps of people on this issue: How do you feel about oysters in the dressing/stuffing?
No oysters

10. Do you consider yourself informed about the first Thanksgiving?
moderately so

11. Which variety of pie will you be enjoying?
As far as I know there will be custard, pumpkin, chocolate and cherry.

12. Do you feel for the turkey??
Nope. They are smelly, stupid birds. The wild ones are much more interesting and also tastier.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Children

Well, DD 2 just left to return to college. She was here for about 46 hours. And she wears me out! She has such enthusiasm and joy; she HAS to share it with everyone. She just shared the plot of Shakespeare's Titus Andronicus in about 8 minutes with full actions and voice changes. It is one of probably 4 Shakespeare plays I have neither read nor seen. Her version was great and I am sure that I would recognize it in a heartbeat! :D She was bouncing up and down the living room and soaring up and down the vocal scales... it is amazing to me that this fantastic creature has anything to do with my gene pool. Her father's yes, mine, not so much.

UPDATE
She just called - 2 and a half hours after leaving - seems the buses do not run on Saturday evening...so she was stranded at the stadium parking lot. Finally got campus security to drive her back to her dorm. Always drama with this one...and the OTHER one majored in theater!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Random Dozen #12

Lid over at 2nd Cup of Coffee is at it again. Here is her latest challenging Random Dozen meme.

1. If you could master one sport, what would it be?
I am about as sports oriented as an orange. On the other-hand I do have some 18 different kung-fu and tai chi forms...so. Ballet would have been my first choice, but not I enjoy the ShaoLin forms so I guess I will work on mastering that...only some 300 more forms to go :D
2. When you make a major purchase, do you go with your gut instinct, or do you do research to make an informed decision?
I research, my hubby researches and then we go with our guts.
3. There is an old kids' game that says you can find out what your movie star name would be by using your middle name as your first name and the name of the street you grew up on as your last. What is your movie star name?
We moved too much... let's see, Ann School-Shanks-Center . Those are the ones I can remember and it doesn't sound too exciting - I hope my agent has a better idea!
4. Would you rather give up your favorite music or your favorite food?
Favorite food. Music is too integral to me....my kids maintain I have my own sound-track since I am ALWAYS humming.
5. There are two types of banana preferences. One is pristine yellow, almost to the point of being green; the other is spotty and more ripe. Which is your preference?
Green
6. Your favorite tree is?
I love trees...I love the lone tree in the middle of the field that has a great silhouette in the winter. I love the welcoming branches of an oak that begs kids to play in it...and down in Buenos Aires at the cemetery where Evita is buried, there is an ancient live oak tree that is HUGE. I love it. And, of course, there is the great 'upside down' tree at Kenyon College.
7. On a scale of 1-10, how tech savvy are you?
about 9. My family consults me, but I consult my bro-in-law for really tech stuff.
8. Has H1N1 touched your family?
nope. We keep washing out hands and trying to prevent, but with one in a college dorm, I am holding my breath.
9. Are you an analytical person, or do you just accept things the way they are without questioning or scrutinizing?
Analytical - I have to know why. Remember the little kids who ask 'why?' and when you answer them they say 'why?' again and again...that is me.
10. Is your personality more like that of a dog, cat, or Koala?
I don't really know much about koala, but you usually see pictures of them alone, so I guess that would be me. Doesn't this one look like he is getting ready to do kung fu with his staff! :D

11. Do you keep in touch with friends you made years ago?
A few. I have one from high school and a few from college. But remember my mentioning the moving when I was growing up...well before Facebook and Twitter, you had to actually WRITE letters with a pen/pencil and paper. And it took forever to get a reply. So friendships tended to fizzle out.
12. You are checking out at a grocery store. In the express lane, there are more people than the regular lanes, but of course, their load is less than those in the regular lanes. Which lane do you choose (assuming you qualify for the express lane) and why?
My assumption is that whichever lane I get in, it will stop. There will be a price check and a problem with the check they are writing and the manager will be at lunch or whatever! I just plan to take my time and visit with the others in line and if by some miracle I am not in line for more than 10 minutes, I think how lucky the day is and maybe I should get a lottery ticket. (I never do! :D)

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Fall into Flavor 5


This is the last week for this meme. I like that it is short and therefore 'do-able' in my mind! :D Thanks Lid at 2nd cup of coffee.

This is the first cake I ever made. I was 11 and my grandmother had died a few months before. I wanted to make this to help my mom feel better. My grandfather helped me. The original recipe called for melted lard and when I added it to the mix, I started to cook the eggs. Grampa helped me beat those eggs into something else. And the cake came out OK in spite of it all. Years later my aunt wondered why my cake tasted more chocolate-y than hers when we used the same recipe. Well when we compared, her's said 6 tablespoons cocoa and mine said 6 HEAPING tablespoons! She swears her mother was trying to keep it a secret.
Aunt Ruby wasn't actually an aunt, at least not of mine, but rather the aunt of one of my gramma's friends. She must have made a great cake cause this is sure a favorite in our clan.

Aunt Ruby's Devil's Food Cake
2 cups sugar
1 cup lard*
2 eggs
1 cup buttermilk (or 1 tablespoon white vinegar in a cup add milk to equal 1 cup)
Sift together:
2 teaspoons baking soda
1 teaspoon baking powder
6 heaping tablespoons cocoa
1/2 teaspoon salt
3 cups flour
Add last:
2 teaspoons vanilla
2 cup of boiling water

* if you use vegetable shortening, you will need 1 cup shortening PLUS 1/4 cup oil

Preheat over to 350 degrees. Grease and flour 3 straight edged cake pans.
Cream together sugar, eggs and lard. Add milk and dry ingredients alternating till thoroughly mixed. The batter will be very stiff at this stage. Add the vanilla and boiling water last. (it is nearly impossible to half this recipe - I always forget and add a full cup of boiling water and then have to add all the other ingredients!) You can also use hot coffee instead of the boiling water for a mocha flavor. Divide batter in the 3 cake pans and bake till a toothpick comes out clean. About 20 minutes. Do not over bake. Allow cake to fully cool before frosting it.

Frosting (OK I admit, I usually use canned frosting - this cakes takes at least a can and a half to cover it all.) But if you want to do the whole thing yourself, here is the traditional frosting my Grampa taught me that first time.
2 sticks softened butter
4 cups confectioner's sugar (the old recipes say XXX sugar)
4 tablespoons cream (a tad more if needed)
1 teaspoon vanilla
5 tablespoons cocoa
Whip sugar, butter and cocoa adding cream as needed to make it smooth. Add vanilla. Place one layer of cake on a plate and frost top, add next layer and repeat, add last layer. Frost sides first then the final top. Serve with a glass of milk!
This is my FAVORITE birthday cake!

Wednesday, November 11, 2009


Time for 2nd Cup of Coffee's Random Dozen.

1. What was the last song you listened to?
I don't listen to a lot of music. The last song I sang was 'Climaclinafeegle-fugle-ashenbeckenbeaglebugle-earaspecking-mountainblooming bird' a camp song

2. Have you ever had “buyer’s remorse” over anything?
We bought a recliner once, on a great sale. But we got a new credit card with it and put it on the card. By the time we paid it off, we had paid so much more than the recliner was worth...lesson learned.

3. What is something in your life that you are thankful for now that you didn’t think you would be at the time of the event? (Something that seemed ill-timed, inconvenient or hurtful which turned out to be a good thing)
I met my hubby-to-be in college and knew he was the one. I wanted to get married pretty soon after that. He insisted that we had to finish college first, and he took 7 years!!! But that gave us time to mature and make a real commitment that has lasted 31+ years. So I think it was a good thing.


4. Do you watch the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade every year? If so, do you have a favorite float or balloon?
Every year. For many years from the grandstands in NYC. Hubby dearest has worked for the Parade Studio off and on for 30 years. He is there now...I am not :(

5. Share a quote, scripture, poem or lyric which has been an inspiration to you lately.
To every season turn, turn, turn.....from the song and Ecclesiaticus.

6. This is meant to be a fun question, and this is a G-rated blog, but please share a “guilty pleasure,” something that you enjoy that’s probably not the most edifying, time-worthy or healthy thing you could be indulging in. Did I mention this blog is rated G?
Butter...I love it...on toast, in brownies, shortbread, on mush, whatever....things go better with butter.

7. What Thanksgiving food are you looking forward to?
Turkey drumstick!

8. What is your favorite book to read to children, or what was your favorite childhood book?
Favorite childhood book - Pinocchio - the original NOT Disney's version. To read to kids, hmmm, we read the Harry Potter books out loud. I enjoyed doing it that way.

9. Do you collect anything? (Feel free to post a photo.)
Lots of things...the rule in our house is 3 or more makes it a collection. Mut the one I have the most of is elephants. I have hundreds and I was going to post a few, but my daughter seems to have 'borrowed' by photo importer so I can't download them from the camera. :( It reached the point years ago that I started telling people not to get me any more unless the were really unusual. I had no idea how many REALLY unusual ones there were! :D


10. Gift bags or wrapping paper?
Wrapping paper mostly, but I have resorted to bags for some of those impossible to wrap gifts.


11. Share an after-school memory from when you were younger. What was your routine like on an average day?
We moved a lot while I was growing up, but in the early elementary days we lived in a small town. I walked to school. My best friend would come over after school and we would play in the upstairs of the old barn on the property. It had a window on the second floor with an apple tree right outside it. We would swing out the window and climb down the tree. There was also an apple orchard in the middle of the block of houses. We played in there too. Once a friend's father was burning some branches and offered to let us cook marshmallows. My mother said no, but I did anyway. My friend caught her marshmallow on fire and started waving it around in an effort to put the flames out. It flew off the stick and landed on the top of my hand. It burned a lot and I ran into her house and put it under cold water (which turns out to have been the right thing to do, but I was just trying to make it feel better.) I couldn't tell my mother, since she had forbidden me to toast the marshmallows. So for 2 days I covered the back of my hand with my other hand and gritted it out. Finally my mom forced me to show her my hand. She was cool. She just cleaned it up and put some ointment on it. I think she felt I had suffered enough! I had!

12. True story: Once, in a job interview, I was asked this question and told there would be no clarifying; I simply had to answer the question: “When you’re fishing, do you feel for the fish?” So what about you? Do you feel for the fish??
Nope. I do throw them back, and I wish them well, but I don't worry about those my cousin catches and cooks up for us.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Fall into Flavor 4


OK I missed Monday and will only make Tuesday by the skin of my teeth - IF I type really fast, but here ya go.

Minted Walnuts. These are a favorite of my mother and Dad used to make them every year. (and he ate them too :D) But he has been gone for 6 years now and it has fallen to me to make them, since I like them too.

1/4 cup light corn syrup
1 cup sugar
1/2 cup water
1 teaspoon oil of peppermint
10 large marshmallows or 20-25 small ones
4 cups walmut halves (or at least large pieces)
2-4 drops green food coloring, optional

Spread a sheet of wax paper over a cookie tray and set it aside. Combine corn syrup, sugar and water in a heavy sauce pan. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly until mixture boils. Cook to 240 degrees F using a candy thermometer. Add the food coloring while it heats if you want to use it. Remove from heat and quickly add peppermint oil and marshmallows. Stir until marshmallows dissolve. Add walnuts and stir till all nuts are coated. You have to do this fast. Pour unto wax paper. Immediately separate the nuts apart using 2 forks. Allow to cool completely and store in a sealed container.

When you try to separate these there will be strings from the marshmallows. I used to love watching Dad do this. It looked so pretty with the 'wires' of candy coating. They should become dry to the touch as they cool, if you cooked them long enough. If not they will be sticky, but still taste great.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Time once again for Linda at 2nd Cup of Coffee's meme.

1. It's early morning, about 2:00AM, and you're driving home. You come to a red light and sit there. There is no one in sight for miles around. Do you wait it out or run the light?
Honestly, usually, but I have gone if I was in a huge hurry or if I was afraid that stopping that long might make me fall asleep.

2. If you had the chance to re-do the last 24 hours, would you change anything?
I would make it so my husband was employed locally and was HOME.

3. When you reply to someone's comment on your blog, do you reply in your comments or go to her blog and comment? (Or email her)
Still new to this and I don't think I have done this yet...

4. Your favorite Disney movie is:
Mulan

5. Do you recycle?
Yep. everything that I can in this area. Even though we have to take it someplace, no pick up here. Though I admit to not composting in the winter - too cold, ground too hard.

6. Games of strategy or games of chance?
Strategy every time. I like to feel I won on my own.

7. Do you have any recurring dreams?
Just one and it has happened maybe 5 times in the last 25 years. It is a discomforting dream and I really wish I would never have it again!

8. What did you learn from your first real job?
To smile and be friendly to people. They like you for it and make your life much more pleasant.

9. Do you buy or borrow most books?

Husband unemployed equals borrowing books - I am a BIG fan of libraries!

10. What fashion trend of the past did you say you'd never wear again but did?

I really can't think of one.

11. When do you start Christmas shopping?
The day after Christmas, I usually buy the next year's cards and maybe wrapping paper etc. But gifts I buy all year long. As I see something. There is a shelf in my closet that is covered in presents and I write them in my diary (in the back) so I don't forget to give something!

12. Have you ever been so happy that you literally jumped up and down for a few seconds? If so, what was the occasion?
ABSOLUTELY! I believe in sharing my happiness at all times. The most recent was a new stapler at work! :D

Monday, November 2, 2009

Fall into Flavor 3


Well for this week's entry into Fall Into Flavor, I had my recipe all in mind. Only earlier in the week I dropped my recipe box! It is a large one, about 3X5X8 and I have a LOT of recipes in it! All the cards went helter-skelter across the floor. I still haven't got them all sorted out and re-filed. (maybe later this evening?) Anyway, I knew the one I wanted was on a day-glow orange card. As it turns out, are a bunch of others. Took me a while, but I finally found it and here it is!

Pizelles

First you MUST have a pizelle press - either electric (my preference) or one of the old cast iron ones. If using the iron ones you are on your own for timing and how to heat them...never did that, so I don't know how they work. While looking for a picture of these cookies, I discovered there are all kinds of stove-top griddles/irons, so anyone can make these!

Preheat pizelle iron while mixing ingredients.

1 1/2 cup sugar
1 cup butter (2 sticks)
6 eggs
4 teaspoons baking powder
pinch of salt
2 tablespoons almond or anise extract (or 1 tablespoon anise extract and 1 tablespoon anise seed)
3 1/2 cups flour
Cream sugar and butter till smooth. Add eggs one at a time and mix thoroughly. Add baking powder, salt and extracts. Add flour last.
When the griddle is hot, place a walnut size* ball of dough in the center and close the lid. These cook in a minute to a minute and a half. You will have to time your own griddle. Remove with the tines of a fork and cool on a rack. They will be crisp when they are cool. This recipe makes a lot! They freeze great.

How big is a walnut? That is what the recipes says so I was trying to think what would be more universal. Maybe a ping pong ball? Experiment, see what works for you. I have 2 griddles and usually make 2 batches, one almond and one anise. Hope you like them! (PS I 'borrowed' this picture from the internet - I won't make mine till closer to T-day! but they really do look like this)

Sunday, November 1, 2009

2009 Giving Thanks Challenge

In honor of the month of November, which boasts a most wonderful holiday, Leah from South Breeze Farm would like to encourage all of us to join her for the 3rd Annual Giving Thanks Challenge! All you have to do is post one thing you're thankful for each day somewhere on your blog. It doesn't even have to be an actual thought-out post. Just start making a list on your sidebar if you want - somewhere you can see it every day to encourage an attitude of thankfulness.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009


Linda at 2nd Cup of Coffee offers this meme for our edification and enjoyment! Hope you enjoy it.

1. Tell me something about your favorite teacher.
Mr. Bobby Wills was my World History teacher in high school. He gave up on the books the school board wanted him to use and instead just lectured from his own store of knowledge. But he didn't make it seem like a lecture, more like story-telling. He also invented a game that we played after-school that was part Risk and part his own invention. We rolled dice to become the rulers of countries in existence around 1450 AD. Then you had to determine what resources your country had and how you could take over the world. Alliances could be made. Armies bought and sold, but you had to have the wealth to do that and that was set by the roll of the dice. It took several weeks to play and he had large maps on the walls showing who owned what at any given time. It was great.... I guess it was a fore-shadower of today's role-playing games. We had a lot of fun and learned quite a bit 'accidentally!'

2. Tell me about one pivotal moment in your life.
I tend to think of pivotal moments as big things and I can't think of any major changes that would count as pivotal, but I will admit that when I held each of our DDs for the first time, I knew life had changed forever.

3. About favorite colors--a lot of people will ask you what it is, but I want to know why it is. What feeling or memory does it evoke?
My favorite color has changed over the years and
in fact is still changing. I find that is tends to depend on the mood I am in and who asks me and when they ask. When I was growing up my favorite color was blue, next sis was pink, next green and last yellow - or as least that is what we always said. We all have Christmas ornaments in those colors (they came in boxes of 4 and Mom labeled them and we still have many of them.) Not sure if my youngest sister really liked yellow or if that is what was left...must ask her sometime. Anyway, as I have matured I find that I alternate between purple and green. Both make me happy. I love the poem, Warning - When I am an Old Woman I Shall Wear Purple by Jenny Joseph and I reaching an age where I am happy to wear purple and pink and chartreuse!

4. What's a sure sign that you're getting older?
See above! :D There is an email circulating out there that says something about going though life kicking and screaming and enjoying every moment of the ride. I used to have it on the wall above my desk when I worked in an office. I still like the sentiment. The only sig
n I will admit to is white hair (OK so it is grey - I prefer to think of it as almost white!) and that is only because I don't have time to deal with coloring it. Life is too short to get old.

5. Please don't sermonize, but Halloween--is it a yes or no for you?
Yes - to costumes and candy and fun. And don't forget to go to church on Nov. 1 and remember ALL saints.

6. What's your favorite musical?
A Little Night Music

7. Are you more of a city mouse or country mouse?

Definitely a country mouse - likes my trees, do I!

8. Did you know that it is possible, for a small fee, to name a real star after someone? (It's true! Google it!) If someone were to name a star for you, would you appreciate it for its whimsy and romance, or would you say, "Are you kidding me? For $19.95 we could have gone to the movie and actually bought popcorn."
OK anyone who doesn't know me well enough to know I would prefer the movie and LARGE popcorn, shouldn't be buying me stars!


This question comes from Paula at His Ways Are Not Our Ways.
9.
What's the craziest thing you've ever been doing and texted during it? I only thought of this b/c I was about to try to text during my walking video but I didn't. Paula, you do know that this blog is rated G, right?
I was doing dishes and thought of something to tell my DD and tried to text while still having one hand in the dishwater. texting + dishwater = dead battery Luckily the phone survived.

10. "It's not a party unless _______."

Not a big party-er. Food is, of course, a necessity, but otherwise... I actually dread parties.

11. When you're stuck in traffic or a waiting room, what do you do to pass the time? PS: There are no magazines available.
No magazines available, is this a preview of hell???? How can I live without something to read. Well I ALWAYS have something in my purse. But on the theory that I have lost my purse and am waiting in the police station to report it, First I would read everything on the walls. Then I would ask to use the bathroom and hope they had reading material in there. If that doesn't work then I would try to sleep. I usually can sleep anywhere in any position and almost always need a nap, so this is a possibility. And in absolutely desperate moments I pray. (and in the doctor's waiting room, maybe first)

12. If you weren't yourself, would you be friends with you?
I think so.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Fall into Flavor 2

Linda over at 2nd Cup of Coffee started this meme - check out all the other great 'fall treats!'.


Cottage Bread

This is an easy recipe for a great accompaniment to any meal. We especially like it in the cool months with a hearty stew.

2 cups hot tap water
1 & 1/2 tablespoons dry yeast (1 & 1/2 packages)
1 heaping teaspoon salt
6 cups flour (approximately)
1 egg white

Mix hot water and yeast and allow to proof for about 10 minutes (this means get all bubbly and foamy looking.)
Add salt and 1 cup flour, mix thoroughly. Add additional flour one cup at a time until the dough is not sticky. Turn out onto a floured board (Do NOT rinse bowl yet!) and knead until smooth and elastic. Use some olive oil and grease the bowl in which you mixed the dough. Place the dough in the oiled bowl and cover with plastic wrap and let rise till double in size - about 1 hour.
When dough has doubled punch it down and divide into two sections with one about half again as large as the other. Knead the larger ball in to a smooth ball and flatten slightly. Brush with whipped egg white (add a little water to the egg wash for better 'crustiness') Form smaller ball the same way and place on top of the first ball. Push your index finger down through the top into the lower ball. This helps hold the two together. Brush it with egg white also. Place immediately into oven and turn the oven on to 400 degrees. Do NOT preheat the oven. Bake until bread sounds hollow when thumped on the bottom. This is best when done on a baking stone, but a heavy baking sheet will do in a pinch.
When bread is done cool it on a wire rack. Enjoy.

Simple joys make a simple noise

Homework assignment from Easy Street: Create a list of simple things that you love and take for granted;

  • being able to walk and run without pain
  • the smell of coffee (hate the taste)
  • my husband vacuuming before my Girl Scout meeting
  • cold water
  • hot water
  • the big maple outside my house
  • my parent's love
  • God's love (I know it is always there, but sometimes I take it for granted!)
  • music - continuous and unceasing - either in reality or in my head (where reality only sometimes resides!)
  • the feel of rain on my skin (I've played in it, hiked in it and thought in it...it is a gift)
  • the steady ticking of the old Calumet clock in the kitchen
  • memories, old and new and yet to come
  • the ability to read and learn and remember (my daughter's dyslexia has made me more aware of the joys these abilities impart)
  • laughter! Both laughing and hearing it...it truly is a fairy's birth.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Random Dozen #8


Second Cup Lid- Linda hosts this getting to know you meme. Click on the doughnuts in the button to link up.

1. Candy corn: Your thoughts?
I crave this candy all year long and then have about 6 pieces and am DONE! I think it is a memory thing and not that I really like it.

2. Briefly, what was the first conversation you ever had with your spouse? (or best friend, if you're not married.) (Or someone significant, like your librarian.)
We're talking 35+ years ago...I can barely remember yesterday's conversation!!! But it was enough to make me break up with a guy I had dated for over a year!

3. Could you ever become a vegetarian?
Nope

4. Have you ever dressed up your pet in a costume?
Nope, hard enough getting the people in costumes!

5. Name something about childhood that you miss (like Clark Bars, Teaberry Gum, Malibu Barbie, cracking fake eggs on people's heads with your fist and "It's the Great Pumpkin" airing only once a year).
Pop (or soda) bottle refunds. We lived across from a high school and my sisters and I kept ourselves in candy by picking up the glass bottles and returning them to the corner store for 2 cents each. With candy a penny and a full-size bar only a nickle, we did OK.

6. Have you ever won a trophy? If not, what do you deserve a trophy for?
Not a trophy exactly, but I got the Thanks Badge for Girl Scouts. This is the highest adult award given.

7. When do you think is the appropriate time to begin playing Christmas music each year?
The first Sunday of Advent or December 1, whichever is first.

8. What's your favorite board game?
The one I am playing. I like most of them and if I can get someone to play, then I love that one! :D

9. How do you feel about surprises (receiving, not giving)?
I love them. I prefer NOT to know what I am getting for Christmas or any other event and I love being surprised.

10. Is it easy for you to say, "I'm sorry?"
Yes and no. It is easy to say when it is meaningless, as in the retail world, "I'm sorry ma'am, we are out of that". And it is easy to say when I really mean it...when I have hurt someone. But it is hard when it isn't my fault and I feel like the other person should apologize. Then I sometimes have to decide whether the friendship is more important to me than the hurt feelings.

11. What is your favorite candle scent?
Unscented - or beeswax

12. October is traditionally "open house" time in public schools. If you had a literal open house in your home (like a reception) what light snacks would you serve visitors and what would you show them (as in art projects, graded papers) that would uniquely represent you?
Hmmm, October, probably cider, maybe mulled if it is cold out. And cake donut holes and maybe some of my Amaretto truffles. As to what would represent me??? hopefully my soon to be repainted living room walls. Going wild in 3 colors and definitely a stretch for me! I am sure 'teacher' would describe it as "moving outside her comfort zone." :D

Monday, October 19, 2009

Fall into Flavor 1


This is my first contribution to Fall into Flavor hosted by Linda at 2nd Cup. The title of these darlings might turn you off - but try them, they are WONDERFUL!

Potato Donuts
2 cups cold mashed potatoes (without cream, salt, butter -UNADULTERATED, in other words!)
3 tablespoons butter, melted
2 cups sugar
1 cup milk
3 eggs
1/2 teaspoon salt
5 teaspoons baking powder
1 teaspoon nutmeg
and flour.

This is an old family recipe and my grandmother was not known for specifics! So the flour is 'enough.' I will try to define.
Start heating oil in deep fryer if you have one, otherwise wait and cook in a skillet or wok after the donuts are made.
Mix the mashed potatoes with the sugar and butter, add eggs. Combine thoroughly. Add salt, baking powder, and nutmeg. Combine. Add milk. The mixture will resemble pancake batter at this point. Add flour 1/2 cup at a time until you have a very soft dough. The dough will stretch and stick but that is what you want. NOT firm or solid like cookies.
Dump the dough out on a well floured surface and press flat, to about 1/2 to 3/4 of an inch thick. Using a donut cutter (or a well floured glass and a shot glass) make your donuts.
Carefully drop the donuts into the hot oil and turn once when the bottom side is brown. When the second side is brown remove and place in brown paper bag with some granulated sugar. Shake and then cool donut on rack.
Serve with cider!

Monday, October 12, 2009

Do they ever grow up?

I got home from work and Tai Chi class today, to hear my phone ringing. It was youngest DD. She of the college dorm. Seems she is sick. Cold, sinus - hopefully not flu, but whatever, she wants mom to bring her some soup. Chicken broth in particular - bibbles would be even better.
Now Mondays are hectic, I work, have my class and then I have a Girl Scout meeting. So the earliest I could even start to drive to the college is 8:40 in the evening and it is a 40 minute drive, so this is an act of pure love! She said she had already tried the stores that are in the dorms (sure didn't have those in MY day!!!) and they only had cream soups and she wanted broth. So I finally relented and said I would bring some up after GS.
Five minutes before the end of Scouts she calls, she has found soup in one of the stores. YAY I don't have to drive up.
But the episode has me thinking. When do we stop doing things for them? Do we ever? I remember, when Eldest DD was about 3, asking my father when he stopped worrying about me all the time and his response was, "I'll let you know when it happens." I suspect the rest is true too. As long as I can do for them, I probably will do for them. The trick is when to NOT do for them, but rather to let them grow and become the people they are meant to be.

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Thankful Thursday

First off, I am thankful for a cousin who got me involved in the blog world, for her wonderful writing and great sense of humor - and the plug she put in for my blog doesn't hurt either!! :D Thanks Heidi.

Second, I am so thankful that I have tomorrow off!!! YAY. I love my job, but I need the time away too. The lawn if getting wild, the house needs cleaned and vacuumed, laundry needs done and I need a rest! Don't know what will happen tomorrow, but I am thankful for it!

Third, I am very thankful that God picked the right mate for me! Every time I think of him, I am again boggled at how good God is and how very lucky I am.

Fourth, I am thankful for garbage men! I took the garbage out tonight and I have to say how glad I am that I don't have to deal with the disposal of this trash. Now lest you think I am a real wastrel, we recycle all plastic, glass, metal, cardboard, newspapers and magazines. We compost all vegetable matter. But there is a certain amount of 'stuff' that doesn't fit into any of these categories. So far kitty litter is in that realm. I understand there are 'green' methods, but I admit that I haven't made that step yet, so in the meantime I am thankful for garbage men (or women)!


Fifth, I am thankful for all those who are praying for me right now. I know that there are family members who always keep us in their prayers. And there are church family who pray for us. And I suspect there are an army of folks praying prayers that we never imagine. Remember in the opening scenes of "It's a Wonderful Life", all those prayers are being heard in heaven? Well I suspect that there are always people praying for us in ways we never know about. Someone may be praying for a new Sunday School teacher, and it's you! Or someone may be praying for a kind word or smile and you are the answer. It's you. and me. And I am thankful for all of you!
Good night!

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

on being alone

I think, for the first time in my life, I am living alone. No I haven't split with TT, but he is working in New Jersey (or New Joisee, as we say it!) until after Thanksgiving. He has been unemployed since Jan 4 of this year so this is a good thing, but having him gone is definitely a two-sided coin. And since they are into overtime, Monday through Thursday are 10 hour days and then 8 hours each on Friday and Saturday, and since we are 7 hours away, it means he won't be home on weekends.
On the one side of the coin is the face. And on the face of it, things are good. More money coming in means more bills getting paid.
But the flip side is that the other side of the bed is empty and there is no one with whom the share the day's news. This is sad. I miss him a lot.
But on the other side, I don't have anyone complaining about the time I spend writing and reading the the world of blog-dom!
But on the other hand there is no one to hold me and make me feel needed.
I feel a little like Tevye in Fiddler on the Roof when he goes on and on and is trying to decide what is happening with his daughters....and on the other hand.....
There is something to be said for eating what you want when you want it and leaving the dishes until there are enough to make it worth it. And I love the freedom of making stops on the way home from work without having to worry about calling anyone or causing them to worry.


But I guess I would trade it all for a good hug! especially from TT!

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Random Dozen


Second Cup Lid- Linda hosts this getting to know you meme. Click on the doughnuts in the button to link up.

1. Tell me the absolute best way to watch a movie.
At home with a bowl of popcorn, in my favorite chair with an afghan around me! It's even better if TT is with me. We don't talk during movies. The kids learned early that movies are silent times. You can ask anything AFTER the movie, but I look for pure escapism in a movie and I can't get that if someone is talking.

2. Do you ever think about your own funeral? If so, do you have specific ideas about how you would like it to be?
Only a little. I would like to be cremated and then you can do what you want with the ashes. And I would like music at the memorial with people singing. But since I will already be is the best place, the survivors may do whatever makes them feel better.

3. Are you more of a giver or a taker?
Probably a little of both. As a parent, I think we become givers. It seems like I am always giving - money for this need or that want, but also support and love and hugs. As a person, I try to be giving and think about the other person, but I suspect that I only think about them in terms of my own needs and wants. So that would make me a taker, huh?

4. Vacations: planned activities and schedules, or play it by ear?
Definitely a winger! I like to have a general guide line - like 'back in 2 weeks and I'll stay inside the lower 48' or 'OK, I have my passport, and $xxx, let's see where that will take us' TT is more planned oriented. So when we travel together, I tend to plan an outline and then leave as much open possibilities times as I can.

5. What is one often overlooked item in your home that needs to be cleaned regularly?
The refrigerator - enough said.

6. Name a cause that means a lot to you.
Girl Scouts. I have been involved for 34 years as both a girl and an adult. I love watching the girls become young women with goals and directions in their minds.

7. Do you eat a regular old peanut butter jelly sandwich, or do you customize it? And by the way, jelly or no jelly?
Crunchy, plain peanut butter. I will occasionally add applebutter, but usually I prefer it plain.

8. If we were having a conversation in person, how would I know if you were nervous?
There is a tightening around my mouth. Also my sentences, answers, become shorter and more succinct.

9. Do you have an elaborate bedtime routine, or just the basics of tooth brushing and jammies?
Well not really a routine, rather a 'this is what needs done' sort of thing. TT will say it he's heading to bed and I'll say 'me too.' Then I go put the remains of dinner in the refrigerator, bring the dog inside, water the pets, clean the litter boxes, turn off all lights, try not to get caught by the computer (who really wants me to play just one more game of WordDrop or read one more blog) brush my teeth and hair and undress and get into bed! About a half an hour after TT is in and asleep!

10. Have you ever regretted something you wrote on your blog?
Yes and no...I erased something once, almost immediately after I posted it. Otherwise, I am still so new to this that there aren't a lot of regrets yet.

11. Has anyone ever told you that you look like a famous person or celebrity? Did you agree?
Can't think of anyone ever saying anything. Course if they did I wouldn't believe them, so I might have put it from my mind.


12. If you were going to dedicate a song to a loved one or friend, what would the song be and to whom would it be dedicated?
When my dad died, my sisters and I sang the Quaker hymn, 'Tis a gift to be simple' at his memorial. It was beautiful. We also sang a camp song that he loved, 'Little Drop of Dew'

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Memes


I found an interesting meme at 2 Thinks to Share who found the interesting meme at Heart2Heart, who found the interesting meme at My Little Corner of the World....and it goes like this: Teresa gave me five words, each of which I am going to expound upon, so you can get to know me better. If you'd like to play along, leave me a comment with your e-mail address included and I will send you five words to expound upon, so we can get to know you better. Here are my five,

Trust This is a word I take very seriously. My hubby has been un-employed since the first of the year. His place of employment just closed. No severance of any kind, but he did qualify for unemployment. We have been living on my part-time income and his free-lance income and so far all the bills have been paid and we have more than enough food on the table. The electric company overcharged us for May through July by estimating our usage. Then when they finally read the meter, they owed us so there was no bill in August and September - when we really couldn't afford it! I said this morning that it was almost as if God had planned it that way, and hubby said "He did!" We have trusted God and He has been good.

Low I have to admit the first thing that came to my mind when I saw this word, was "Swing Low, Sweet Chariot coming for to carry me home." One of my all-time favorites. I think I will just let that stand.

Memory I have been blessed with an aunt who is an A-type personality. She plans things to the nth degree and really over does some things. But because of her we have RIFF RAFF (Ride In Fun For Relatives And Family Friends) and Cousins Camp and many other memories. She calls them 'memory-makers.' She made a point of reminding us that these were tomorrow's memories. And because of that I tend to try to suck every memory I can from any event. I try to 'freeze-frame' it in my head to share at a later date. And the sharing is an important part of the memory - otherwise it is selfish collecting. Memories are shared. They need to be shared to remain fresh, to remind us of those persons who have gone on before us.

Giant Big, huge, enormous. I never seem to think of them as evil or monstrous - just big. Like the Jolly Green Giant or the Giant Sequoias. I wonder if the giant in Jack and the Bean Stalk just got bad publicity?

Baby I desperately wanted a baby. I wanted a whole slew of them. But in His infinite reason, God only gave us 2. And it took 6 years to get the first one and 5 for the second. And they have been worth EVERYTHING it took to get them. I know many people who have adopted because the desire for children is so strong. I understand. I wanted a baby. I wanted to hold that infant and see he/she grow and introduce him/her to the wonders of the world. Thank you Lord, I was granted that wish.
Now they are young women, and I wonder if babies are again in my future. Not too soon, but maybe I will again get to hold a child and marvel at all the trust he/she has in me, as I bend low to pick them up, as I share memories with them in a giant way. Thank you.

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Heros

I had a visit with my BF from college last night and we got to talking about our parents. She was saying that my parents were the only ones she knew among her friends to go to college. Her father had gone to college, but none of her friends in school had come from that background and only when we met in college did she meet anyone else whose parents had entered the hallowed halls.
She was very proud of her dad for going on the GI bill and getting an education. And rightfully so.
I, on the other hand, came from a long line of academics. My grandfather was superintendent of schools and several great aunts or uncles had been to college, as well as all my mother's sisters. My parents met in college, but married when mom was a sophomore and she quit school and began the process of raising babies and keeping house. I don't think this is what she really had planned. But she did it magnificently. Then in 1968 her mother-in-law made it possible for her to return to college and finish her degree. It took her 4 years, but she graduated with her Bachelors degree the same day I graduated from high school. Long day.
My BF comments got me to thinking. I have never told her how proud I am of her. It can't have been easy to return to college at 33 - this was not the time of the 'non-traditional' student. She worked hard and our dinner conversations included philosophy and Beowulf. It was wonderful. I have bragged about her ever since, but I don't think I ever told her how wonderful it was to see her happy and enthused and because of that somehow we were more liberated than many of my peers. Thank you, mom.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Pets

We have nearly always had pets. Cats, dogs, lizards, fish, clams, crabs, gerbils, hamsters, parakeets or some other amazingly adorable, irritating critters! Now don't get me wrong - the irritation rarely comes from the pet - with one notable exception to be discussed later! - rather it comes from the fact that when requested each child promises, "I'll take full care of it mommy!! Really I will." And then....when they were little I ended up caring for them because they would forget and I didn't want to wake them up at 11:30 to clean the litter box. But now they have abandoned home and left the pets here. The apartments/dorms won't allow pets, don't ya know?
So currently we have 4 cats, a dog and a lizard. And the cats have to be kept segregated - 2 upstairs with claws and 2 downstairs that were de-clawed a long time ago. Hubby and I had just decided that as each of our flock reaches the end of their earthly time, we would not replace them, when DD2 shows up with the upstairs 2 cats. She had them in an apartment, but now has moved to a dorm (she does everything backwards!) and isn't allowed to have them. And, she can't give them away because she wants to have them when she graduates. Besides they are special needs cats...or so the vet told her.
Both had been abandoned and abused as kittens. One had a broken lower jaw and few teeth left on the bottom and the other is missing an eye. The vet stitched it closed and it doesn't look bad, just sort of 'pirate-ish.' Anyway, both have recovered nicely and made all the accommodations necessary for their happy existence.
The downstairs pair are a different matter. Pampered and spoiled, they are elder statesmen who think, nay know, the world revolves around them. One was a chosen cat, gotten when DD2 was 3 or 4 and thus named, 'Kitty.' She is queen. The intruder cat was dumped on our farm-like abode 13 Christmases ago. She had already been spaded and de-clawed. You can't leave a cat outside without natural defenses. So we took her in. No one claimed her, in spite of notices and repeated questioning of neighbors.
I think I know why. She is a trouble maker. She may not have claws, but she thinks she does and she will intentionally pick a fight. Then she shows up with a cut or bite mark - we have had to be VERY careful not to let her get outside. Plus she is a 'pucky' cat. She just throws up for no reason! YUCK.
Actually of all our pets my favorite is the anole who is now a year and a half older than they told me they would ever get! She started as a science project when DD2 was still home-schooled in 9th grade. She is now a Junior at college! The anole was suppose to last 3-4 years. Do the math. It is longer by some time! But she is neat. If the music is loud she will 'dance' to the beat. It is cool to watch. And I just enjoy watching her in her terrarium next to the computer. So pets are a part of our life for some time to come...and I guess that is ok.

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Bread for the body and soul

OK, I bake all the bread (OK 98.5% of it!) for our family. I figure that I have made, on an average, 6 loaves of bread every week for the last 30 years. I think that is 1800 loaves of bread, but I was a liberal arts major and I avoided math! (OK I just did the actual math and it came out to 9360 0r 6 loaves, 52 weeks and 30 years!!! WOW!)
It all began when I was in college and had a prof who drove me crazy. He had decided I was a B-C student and NOTHING I did could change his mind. I am NOT, most emphatically NOT, a B-C student. It drove me crazy. I would get home from school at 11 p.m. and not be able to sleep because I was so hung up on his opinion. Somewhere in there I decided that I might as well make use of the 'fret-time' and so I started making bread. This had the added advantage 0f letting me punch the bread while picturing said prof's face! That bread was very smooth!
Over the years people have asked for my recipe and I try to share it, but the truth is that I do it by feel now. A handful of this and a pinch of that. However, I am going to try to teach how to bake bread today on this blog. Good luck anyone who tries!

First: Here is the basic recipe I use.
2 cups milk
4 cups hot water
3 packages of dry yeast
2/3 cup sugar, divided
1 heaping tablespoon salt
1/2 to 2/3 cup olive oil
flour (enough)

OK so I can't tell you how much flour. Sorry I have never measured it. My grandmother's recipe said 'flour'. So you are getting an authentic recipe here!

The first thing I do is to measure the milk in a large 4 cup measuring cup. Then I microwave the milk for 2 minutes. You don't want it to boil, just get real hot, so it will depend on your microwave. You can scald it on the stove top, but I never had the patience for that!
While the milk is heating, put the yeast and a tablespoon of sugar in a large bowl. And I do mean large. This recipe makes 6 loaves of bread so give it room. When the milk is hot, pour it on the yeast and sugar, add the hot water. I just use it as hot as it comes from the tap. Stir it with a wooden spoon and let it sit for at least 5 minutes - but it can sit for up to 30 if you get busy.
When it looks like this, it is ready for the next step.

Add the remainder of the sugar and the salt. Then add the oil. Stir thoroughly and begin to add flour. Keep stirring the flour in until you can work it with your hands without it sticking to everything.
At this point you are going to turn it out onto a floured surface and begin kneading it. Now this isn't just poking at the dough. This is mixing everything and making the dough elastic and smooth. The best way I have found is to push away from myself, then fold that part back to the middle and turn a quarter turn and repeat. (I wanted to get pictures of this, but I was alone and it just doesn't work that way!) Anyway, you keep doing this until the dough is elastic - this means stretchy and not sticky. Recipes tell you it takes 10 minutes, sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't. But longer is always better than not enough.
When the dough is thoroughly kneaded, place it in the same bowl you originally mixed it in...only make sure to oil the bowl first!!! Cover it loosely with plastic wrap and a towel and let rise. This can take an hour to 2 hours depending on the weather. If it is cool, I put it in the one room we always heat - the library, not because I spend a lot of time in there, but because it is also home to an anole and they are not tolerant of the low temperatures for which our midwest is known.
When the dough has doubled in size, punch it down - just poke it back into the bowl. Then turn it out onto the lightly floured surface and cover with the bowl while you get the loaf pan ready. I use a vegetable spray, but I have also used my fingers to grease the pans. When they are ready divide the dough in half. Then divide each half into 3 equal parts. Shape the pieces into a loaf and place in the greased pan. Cover with the plastic wrap and towel and let rise for about half an hour. This is also when I pre-heat my oven to 365 degrees.

When the dough has just rounded over the top of the sides of the pans, I put it in the oven. It bakes for about 35-40 minutes or until a loaf sounds hollow when tapped on the bottom.
Take it out and place on a rack to completely cool. BUT before it cools take a small amount of shortening and grease the tops. I use a baggie on my hand and just quickly rub it over the hot tops of the loaves. Then I let them completely cool and freeze them in zipper bags in the freezer. They will last about a month - or so they tell me - we have never had one last more than a week!!!
There are multiple variations, one of our favorites is to add a handful of flaxseed and use molasses instead of sugar. You can substitute whole wheat - but play with it - if you use all whole wheat, it makes a VERY heavy bread that will mold quickly. We like it about half and half. I have also added rolled oats. Good luck and....
ENJOY!